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When asked, girls typically don't like that i am dating others and not just them. I get this question on the first or second date if I am seeing others. What is the best way to respond without hurting my date or offending her? If she gets the idea of me dating just her, I feel that is the same as a relationship. Which I will not jump into on a first or second date without knowing that person.

Best reply by itching_knowledge:

They aren't offended at all. If at all they will want you even more as a challenge. As long as you don't have GF/Wife they won't get offended. Just don't say you are dating a whole freaking cheerleader team, don't make it sound like you got a lot of girls or anything serious.

I asked the guy that I have been seeing for a month if we were in a relationship and he said that he didn't want to be in a relationship for a while and that he wanted to get to know me better first. At the same time he told me that he was exclusively dating me and no one else? What is the difference between exclusively dating and being in a relationship? Does this mean we are boyfriend/girlfriend?

Best reply by Cat J:

It means - don't worry about it. Being "in a relationship" is pointless if you rush into it. Remember the saying "fools rush in"? A month of "just dating" is nothing in the long run. It sounds like you're pretty young, I'm guessing. I can't tell my sisters this enough - pressure a boy into becoming your "boyfriend" and he'll lose interest. When he's ready, he'll tell you - and it's usually in a very romantic way because he's smitten. And if he's not, you'll see the signs loud and clear and be much better off not in a relationship. Best advice, just enjoy and make the most out of every moment with him.