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I would like to start dating a girl but I have run into a few issues. Its very hit and miss whether or not i see her. If i do i definitely talk to her. However most of the time it's in the bar when were both pretty wasted. I don't want to be a creep and take advantage of this. I have her on facebook and her number, however we live in small town (3000 people) where there's essential nothing to do. So dates off (not very private, run into people you know). Any ideas?

Best reply by Angela A20:

ok go to the bar and don't get wasted....even if she is wasted start talking to her and be super nice...if she has trouble getting home and stuff help her out and don't take advantage of her because she will admire the fact that you care about her enough to make sure that she get's home safely. you can also ask her to chill when you guys are wasted or get to the bar early and start talking to her before she get's wasted (that way she will remember what you said) or you can always ask her if she is going out this weekand (thhrough fb message) good luck. please help me: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AkBHZpLIOUtNLxLnho0APrjsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090721171521AA2ogPs

I would say what is typical is within three dates. How long do people nowadays wait to have sex when first dating? When should you invite a guy over for the first time? How long should you wait before having sex for the first time? I would say within a month or six dates. We're in our late 30's. Thx. Does it not work out into a relationship if you have sex within two weeks or four dates? Thanks.

Best reply by Priya G:

2-3 months