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I asked the guy that I have been seeing for a month if we were in a relationship and he said that he didn't want to be in a relationship for a while and that he wanted to get to know me better first. At the same time he told me that he was exclusively dating me and no one else? What is the difference between exclusively dating and being in a relationship? Does this mean we are boyfriend/girlfriend?

Best reply by Cat J:

It means - don't worry about it. Being "in a relationship" is pointless if you rush into it. Remember the saying "fools rush in"? A month of "just dating" is nothing in the long run. It sounds like you're pretty young, I'm guessing. I can't tell my sisters this enough - pressure a boy into becoming your "boyfriend" and he'll lose interest. When he's ready, he'll tell you - and it's usually in a very romantic way because he's smitten. And if he's not, you'll see the signs loud and clear and be much better off not in a relationship. Best advice, just enjoy and make the most out of every moment with him.

I would say what is typical is within three dates. How long do people nowadays wait to have sex when first dating? When should you invite a guy over for the first time? How long should you wait before having sex for the first time? I would say within a month or six dates. We're in our late 30's. Thx. Does it not work out into a relationship if you have sex within two weeks or four dates? Thanks.

Best reply by Priya G:

2-3 months

I'm already dating a guy from work and we have a great relationship except that nobody at work knows and there are rumors about me dating other guys at work. They know I'm dating but because I don't say who they speculate and that's how rumors start. They also tell my bf that he should date so and so. Anyway, what would be the pros of letting people know who am I dating and what would be the cons?

Best reply by cheergirl:

you still have 0 answers even after you posted the other question! haha